Soothe

Make kindness a habit

one message at a time.

Send and receive kind, anonymous messages—easy and safe.

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Write a request for kindness

There have been a lot of changes in my life lately...

I've been feeling pretty anxious about...

It feels like my friends have a different...

Send and receive kind replies

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Moderated and anonymous

  • Spam and bad word filters
  • Reporting and moderation
  • No ads or data selling
  • Delete everything, anytime

FAQ

tl;dr: What is Soothe?
  1. It's a mobile app.
  2. You anonymously write requests about things you're worried about.
  3. Other people can reply to your requests with kindness and compassion.
  4. You can reply to others' requests too.
  5. The app has spam and bad word filters, and reports are taken seriously.
Is this app meant to solve my problems?

It’s tempting to think Soothe is about solving your deepest problems, but that’s not the goal. One of the expectations you agree to when you start is “I recognize I can’t fix others’ problems, but I can share kindness.”

If there is a “goal” in this app, it's to take the reflection and empathy it encourages into other parts of your life.

It's important to note that Soothe is not a replacement for counseling. If anything, I hope it will encourage people to seek out professional support when it's helpful.

Were you inspired by games like Kind Words?

Absolutely, yes! Kind Words, Animal Crossing, A Short Hike, Slowly, lo-fi hip hop radio, and many more. There's been a growing appetite for experiences that inject kind feels into your life. I'd argue there's nothing novel here beyond my own take on the genre. The closest thing I've worked on is a conversation tool called Supportive.

Soothe was designed to be a cute and delightful experience. I hope you find something wonderful on it!

How do you keep the app safe?
  • At official launch, Soothe will be a paid app.
  • We moderate the content and provide easy-to-use reporting tools.
  • We use spam and bad word filters.
  • We timeout or ban users who repeatedly or flagrantly break our rules.
  • Personally identifying information is banned from any messages.
  • All new users agree to community expectations.
  • (Soon) We'll offer guides and tips for writing excellent messages.
  • (Soon) If the app notices that somebody is writing about concerning topics like self-harm, it will privately and proactively offer resources from professionals.
What's the roadmap?

There's lots of ideas brewing. If you have any ideas, reach out and share it!

  • Stickers, letter styles, new envelopes, and more
  • Formal community and moderation guidelines
  • Replying more than once to someone (could be chatting, 1-time replies, etc.)
  • Dark mode and accessibility fixes
  • Non-addictive push notifications
  • Ability to login to sync data across devices
  • Collectables and a place to keep them
  • Messages in a bottle?
  • And many more...!
How does Soothe make money?

Soothe will be a paid app. There are no ads.

A positive byproduct of being a paid app is ensuring that Soothe is moderated well.

There may be future in-app purchases for cosmetics (such as envelope types, stickers, and more). However, the plan is to provide a hefty amount of cosmetics by default.

Why should I trust Soothe?
  • If you are comfortable with the design choices in this app. The anonymous nature of the app lends it to be more difficult to connect things to who you are. You are also able to push the “eject” button at any time and delete your stuff.
  • If you are comfortable with your device communicating with Google's Firebase, which is used as the server, and Sentry.io, which is used as a crash log.
Do you read my messages?

I will only read something you wrote if it is reported by someone.

This is a flimsy guarantee based on trust. If I become corrupt, I hope you hold me accountable by complaining loudly and deleting the app.

Because Soothe is not encrypted, I do have the ability to read the messages you send. However, because this app is anonymous and it doesn't collect personal data, it's likely impossible to identify who you are.

In the future, I’m interested in encrypting replies so that it becomes infeasible to read messages. However, this will depend on whether it’s seen as a valuable investment by the community.

Do you collect or sell personal data?

No! I have no interest in collecting the details of your life or sharing it with anyone. See Soothe's Privacy Policy to learn about the minimal data we store.

Please don't send identifying information in this app. This includes names, pseudonyms, addresses, emails, telephone numbers, locations, and more.

Heyyyyy!

You know that feeling when you just need to vent or share something without overthinking it? That’s kind of why Soothe exists. It’s meant to be a place where you can let your thoughts out, no filters, no pressure, no one watching.

Honestly, big social media? It’s exhausting. Half the time, it feels like it’s built to make things worse, not better. So we thought, what if there was a little corner online that was just… kind?

With Soothe, everything is anonymous. We don’t want your data or anything like that. It’s just about creating a space where you can feel safe enough to open up. Oh, and just so you know, this isn’t a dating app or a place to find friends. It’s something else—just a quiet spot for honest, kind connection.

We want to build this community just they way you want, reach out to us and we'll get in touch!

Take care!